It’s not very surprising that I am alarmed by the fact that I am incapable of creating an intimate relationship with both the same and opposite sex. I am at an age where the Psycho-social task I am apt to complete so happen to be Intimacy Vs. Isolation if we are to base it on Erikson’s Psychosocial Stages. One thing I’ve noticed though is the fact that for the past couple of years even prior to entering young adulthood, I already find it very difficult to be very open,to give full disclosure, to fully trust and rely on anyone outside my family circle. I’ve been observing myself and I noticed It has been an instinct for me to move away from people who seem to make the strongest connections. Loss is a big part of it. The battle of the odds is second. Fear of unexpected pregnancy,third. Lack of confidence with others resulting from being very self reliant. And perhaps the worst part, I’ve developed my own capabilities so much that I wanted to meet someone that is much better than me. I have always ignored this for long, but I am now approaching an age when marriage seem to be a measure of a woman’s capability, when bringing up a family seem to have become a meaning to life existence. I know there’s a solution, and that is what makes this a problem.